Here is the scenario:
Your kids is suffering or you anticipate them suffering.
Seeing them suffer makes you suffer, and you can’t take it, so you do something to prevent their suffering.
You feel relieved. Your kid has no idea that they should feel relieved because you won’t ever allow them to suffer.
Your kid becomes even worse than you in that they are less able than you to handle the pain that goes along with being alive.
Your kid is still living with you when they are 30 years old.
You don’t understand how it could have turned out this way because you did everything a parent could do.
Grow up! And I am not talking to your kid.