My wife says I am not nurturing.
My oldest daughter says it.
My younger two daughter’s say it . Actually, they cry when I am not.
I just had a client say it. He didn’t use the word ‘nurture’, but that is what he was saying. He says I don’t show feeling. I ask for feedback from all clients every session so it was welcome. He actually gave me examples of a few times when I managed to be nurturing with him.
I was thinking, ” Do you know how hard this job can be? You want me to be feeling every session? I can’t do that! I’ll crash and burn.”
So I got an issue here. I am just not sure what to do about it.